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Stop Looking for Tips. Start Doing the Work
Why Insight Alone Isn’t Enough to Stop the Same Fights, Breakups, and Patterns.Discover why insight alone isn’t enough to break old relationship…
Sep 29
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Eric Bensoussan
Stop Trying to Change Your Partner — Start Changing the Way You Show Up
Change yourself first — watch what happens next. Start changing the way you show up. Discover how self-leadership, emotional responsibility, and clear…
Sep 16
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Every Expert Talks About Boundaries—But No One Talks About Safety First
Why safety is the missing foundation that makes boundaries finally work.
Sep 1
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August 2025
When the Real Issue Is That It’s Not Safe to Disagree
The argument isn’t the problem. It’s what your body believes will happen next.
Aug 15
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When Criticism Isn’t Really About Them
A quiet look at the unhealed parts we reveal in the heat of the moment.
Aug 6
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Eric Bensoussan
July 2025
It Was Never About the Dishes (Or the Phone, Or the Silence)
How Couples Get Stuck Fighting the Surface While Drowning in the Same Fear
Jul 25
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You’re Going to Hurt Each Other. What Happens Next Matters Most.
Why real love isn’t built on avoiding pain—but on learning how to repair it, together.
Jul 1
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June 2025
When Safety Feels Foreign: Learning to Receive What You Didn’t Grow Up With
When safety feels uncomfortable (but it’s what you’ve been longing for). Sometimes, the thing we’ve been longing for finally shows up—someone steady…
Jun 5
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May 2025
How to Co-Create Emotional Safety—Even in Imperfect Relationships
We often wait for the other person to change before we feel safe. To open up more. To relax and bring our full selves to the relationship. But what if…
May 26
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How to Know If It’s Safe to Be Vulnerable in Your Relationship
Vulnerability isn’t just a choice—it’s a nervous system response. If you’ve ever wondered, “Can I really open up with this person?”—this is your…
May 20
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Why Vulnerability Feels So Risky—And What It Really Costs You to Stay Guarded
What if the greatest risk isn’t rejection, but never feeling truly seen? In this article, I explore why vulnerability feels unsafe, how childhood shapes…
May 13
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Eric Bensoussan
April 2025
When Your Body Knows: How to Recognize Emotional Safety (Before Your Mind Talks You Out of It)
How to Recognize Emotional Safety (And What It Actually Feels Like)
Apr 29
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